What happened to japanese men? They are descendants of the Samurai warriors!!!!!?

Question:

I mean WTF dude! Samurai were real men who were honorable. But look at their descendants! I bet their fore fathers would go crazy if they saw what they do and what they look like. My question is "What caused this transformation?". I understand there are some real men in japan, but mostly they are fuking *******. I was listening to this lecture and the woman said there was a period were most men went to work before the children woke up and came home when the children were asleep, so there was no fatherly influence. All the kids saw was a motherly feminine influence and that is why today`s japanese men are feminine

Answer:

Point one, most Japanese are not descendants of samurai. They are descendants of peasants, fisherman, merchants and such. The samurai never numbered more than 10% of the population.
It would be like saying that if you are of English ancestry you are the descendant of a knight. It's possible but the odds are against it.
Secondly, how do you define a "real man"? Someone who works hard and supports his family or someone who acts like a bosozoku?