The Japanese towards homosexuals and rape?

Question:

I'm assuming that MODERN Japanese are generally open minded towards gays in large cities. I want someone to describe to me exactly the general MODERN feeling they have towards homosexuals and their relationships. What is their "gay culture" like? Also, what kind of rape culture do they have? I heard that people get raped in Japan like they do in their smutty manga. I heard people just accept it, people are less sympathetic towards the victim, and that counseling/therapy help is less accessible to the victim. Is this true?

Answer:

Yes, the Japanese accept gays into society but the type of "being gay" in Japan is different in the west.
If I am correct, The picture of the Gay people in Japan are submissive, silent, shy and does not act liberated and egocentric like the Westerners do. I am warning you in advance because I know that some of foreigners who tried to adapt a Japanese living in Japan have to die a social death before they can be able to adapt.

If you really really want to be able to understand Japanese culture and their culture of Homosexuality. If you want to go to Japan and have a successful Yaoi relationship with any Japanese person. If you want to know how the Japanese understand Homosexuality.
Then you need to do a lot of research regarding your concerns. If you are willing to pursue a relationship with a Japanese then you must do your best. GANBATTE KUDASAI

STEP ONE: If you want to understand what being feminine in Japan is: I want you to read two books written by Takeo Doi which is very recommended to any foreigner who want to have a succesful relationship with any Japanese person whether it is a romantic, business or simply friendship. Remember to read these book with an open mind and put them in your hearts.

The Books:
Anatomy of Dependence ISBN 0-87011-181-7
- It is a book that talks about the Japanese concept of "Amae" and the nature of human relationships. Interestingly, it also gives a very good explanation about the nature of homosexuality and it also explains why the westerners are that way and the Japanese are that way.

Anatomy of Self ?????????????????
-It is a book that talks about

STEP TWO: Watch a lot of anime or Japanese related literature that is related to living normally in Japan. Animes that potray the Japanese way of living will give you an idea what the modern Japanese life and what is the ideal life for a Japanese.

Good examples:
Sergeant Keroro - many aspects of modern Japanese life are mentioned here.
Sayonara Zetsubou Sensei - many insights of Japanese living is mentioned here.
xXxholic- a good insight on Japanese superstitious belief.
Genshiken - Very realistic Japanese Otaku College life.
(and many more)

STEP THREE: Research more about Japan. If you want to have a successful relationship with a Japanese man then you must be a committed person.


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About the rape culture in Japan, Compared to other places in the world, Japan has one of the least number of rape cases in the world. In fact, Japan is the safest place in the world. There are almost no guns in Japan. It is like Utopia.

As for your sister's worries, Japanese people are one of the most skillful voyeurs, incredibly tactful and unconventional molesters and tactful stalkers in the world. Your sister might suspect that she might be raped but she may just have the clairvoyance that she might have stalkers.

You might not know anything about it but the Japanese has formulated the best strategy and the best tactics just to satisfy the desires of the flesh.






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