I really don't know what to do with my life? Should I stay in Germany, or go to Japan or to the UK?

Question:

So, I am an aspring writer, thus far without notable success, but I keep trying.

I have a girl whom I love, but she already has a bf, and unless I can't be with her, I could just as well go to Japan or the UK (I have friends and relatives in both places).

So I guess my question is, should I stay where I am, keep writing and hoping to get the girl (some day)? Or should I go to Japan or the UK, and start all over, and still keep writing?

Thanks.

Answer:

I would suggest that:

1- You look at your ability to express what you mean as a way to improve your writing career. For instance, you state "unless I can't be with her". If you think about it, you are already not with her, so there is no unless. And in regard to 'some day', my Magic 8 Ball says, "When Hades freezes over."

2- #1 causes me to feel that you would do better in the U.K. as they might have a better chance of unraveling such cryptic statements.

3- Depending on what relation these 'relatives' are, you may still find yourself in need of a visa. And they don't offer 'Aspiring Writer Visa'.

4- Once again associated with writing, you should give some thought as to where your post your writings. The relationship of your topic and Travel/Japan is extremely tenuous at best.

5- Unless you can what? Oh, this goes back to #1, huh? But this is so cryptic that even the British would surely be puzzled, much less the Japanese.

So, in conclusion, I would say stay where you are or go to the U.K.