With 4 grand how long can i splurge and party in tokyo?

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also what's the scene like? am i likely to get any action in the gay community (i want a long haired japanese bad boy so bad so judge me) but is it possible? i don't want to be gaijin T.T

Answer:

The gay scene in Japan is pretty closed. Although I've heard there are some clubs in Tokyo.
Can you speak native level Japanese ?
You're not Japanese, you'll always be a gaijin.